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Which has led to dating being something more like a high school reenactment of Waiting for Godot rather than any sort of clarity on where you stand with the person who bought you drinks the week prior.
But date a younger guy or girl, and the respect just seems to follow.
And without having a performance bar set by ex-girlfriends of Jake’s past, I was able to let go and try new things with him without a fear of looking stupid.
There’s Less Pressure on Your Coupledom I may be accidentally writing the book on Peter Pan syndrome here, but the older you get, the more pressure new relationships have right away to be “real” relationships — full of day dates to the farmer’s market, cooking dinners at home together, and picking out sheet sets at Bed, Bath and Beyond. But it skips over one of my favorite parts of dating: doing a bunch of dirty, drunk shit together until you’re no longer embarrassed of each other.
What the handcuffs did lead to, though, was my own realization that the younger your partner, the more open they are to being Good, Giving, and Game — noted sex therapist Dan Savage’s theory that the best sex comes from partners being kind, generous, and up to try anything.
Jake had less experience than I did, but instead of getting nervous and giggly like some other people in my bed, he was game to try things.
While I respect people that enter into adult relationships with aplomb, there’s something to be said for being comfortable enough to make drunken mistakes and have whiskey soaked fights that I would say makes for stronger relationships.
Who wants to worry about always being perfect and appropriately inhibited, you know?
But sometimes it feels as though the gender revolution hasn't quite managed to infiltrate heterosexual relationships. That is, until I started sleeping with younger men.I know that men have been on the ‘older woman’ tip for a minute, but if you’re a woman, until you’re actually a cougar taking midday zumba classes and trying to figure out if Medicaid covers boob jobs, being the “older woman” wasn’t exactly on your vision board when it came to leaning in.To say men JUST want sex, especially young men, isn’t a fair assessment.They’ve been having sex for years, and it’s not like they can’t get it if they want it.